Gay & Lesbian issue: a survey of a normal Chinese lesbian

          A survey of A Normal Chinese Lesbian
     Comparing to gay group in china, so-called "la la" which is a lesbian group is not be well known in china. But this group always exists in Chinese society, and they start make it become bigger and bigger. Their intentions are to get understand and support by public.
     Four years ago, TONY never thought about there would have so many people just like herself. As a professional photographer, she looks pretty and always wears baseball hat. She likes wearing man style black shirt and jeans, and hold girlfriend's hands chill in a lesbian bar.This bar is a small one near Beijing national stadium. Every Saturday afternoon , from 2pm.to 6pm,this bar is the lesbian group's certain place.all men visitors be refused to go inside.The middle of the bar has a big long table, and a big TV in a corner, these lesbians sit around the table and chat with each other. the TV always displays some lesbians TV show so that match the atmosphere .Every time, they have a host, the host pick up a topic to let them talk and think. Such as the problem of safe sex, or how to face the pressure from family as a lesbian,etc. When the host talk about something, the bar is so quiet , and they will start talking after the host request them to talk about it.TONY has a girlfriend who is date with her almost 7 years, and they are planning to get married the next year.but because Chinese government does not acknowledge lesbian marriage so that they only can get married in private. But they have already decided to do it , so whatever they will face to, they will be a couple.
     Actually, TONY was a normal girl when she was young. but she liked playing with female. And she best friend was over close to her, they played together, studied together, even sometimes sleep together. Gradually. tony found her rely on this girl and have passion on her. so she misunderstand this feeling with love. after tony went to university, she started finding some girls to date, and gradually built up the habit that she liked girls to touch her and care about her. so she started the road of being a lesbian.after that, TONY though she is a "problem person. until now.
     In fact, TONY is just a model of the lesbian group. Thousands of them have similar story to be a homosexual. but they are not "problem person", they need public care about either. I believe they will figure the problem out soon.