Time flies so fast. The four-month diary assignment is almost over. At this moment for writing the last summary, it's the time for me to make conclusion and summarize the whole topic of blogs.This semester i concentrated on four big problems of homosexual people.Gay-straight marriage; Asian homosexuak people's lives;Big companies' attitudes toward gay people; Problems between gay people and diseases.
First, gay-straight marriage is a big issue for all over the world. Lots of people are afraid of telling the truth that they are hopmosexual people. So they keep the secret and pretend to be normal opeople such that gay people marry normal girls as wife. But they are not happy for this knid of fake marriage. They will broke their families and marriages and harm the peopke who love them.It's a tragedy for human sopciety.
second,i paid more attention on Asian gay people problems. Because Asian culture do not as open as western's, people always avoid talking topics about homosexual. but these years, lots of Chinese and Japanese gay people come out and speak up for their own rights. thus governments need to deal with these issues, apparently governments are not ready for it so that many protests are coming up . Many gay people have the feeling of against government if they can not get the proper rights.
third, many companies still have bad attitudes toward gay people. They do not hire gay people and don't give the chance let them be leaders. Boy Scouts once did not allow gay young people participating in association and they still do not let gay people be the leader of boy scouts;a Chinese company refused a employee because he is gay . Homosexual people are still having problems about doing jabs and harder for have a normal job career.
fourth, gay people is a group that easily catch diseases. HIV, sexual transmitted diseases are happen to gay people in high rate. Lots of gay people catch bad disease because they did not use proper sexual protections. Public should help them build up healthy habit for sex and save them from sick.
In conclusion, gay people still do not get all rights that they should have. As a normal people in society, we should give equal rights to them and give them respects ,we also should help them whenever they need because we are all humans.
2014年6月3日星期二
2014年5月27日星期二
Chinese gay people get rejected from company
Chinese gay people get rejected from company
A Chinese gay people called Zhao Peng participated in a TV show which helps people to find jobs. In this show, Zhao Peng get appreciation from a big company's CEO, and this CEO announced that Zhao Peng can get a job from him and the salary is almost 3000 dollars a month. But after nearly half year, that CEO told Zhao Peng that he can't have this job anymore. Zhao Peng was so sad and mad, he accused that company of his own rights. Zhao Peng think that company doesn't want him to get jobs because he is a gay people. Because Zhao Peng is an active people in internet, he had very well career life before, but he also post that he is a gay man in the internet,too.Thus, he thinks the company refused him because they saw his profile information on line. Zhao Peng also said there are almost 5% gay people in china still being discriminated. Those people can't find jobs and get proper rights. They have to hide the secrets about they are gay people and personal lives.
In brief, gay people still have big problems in professional career and related government and public should take care of it seriously.
In brief, gay people still have big problems in professional career and related government and public should take care of it seriously.
2014年5月20日星期二
The Gay Test
The Gay Test
Nowadays, with the fast development of internet, people post more and more funny things on varies of websites. One of those popular websites is the gay test website. It is a so-called psychological test to help people explore their sexual orientations. And this test works on the principle that people are better at judging the attractiveness of people they themselves are attracted to.
This test includes almost twenty questions that can measure what kind of sexual original you have.Most of questions are let you choose the most attractive person between three pictures. It also ask you about your own idea if you think you are gay or straight people.
Anyway, this test is just for fun , the result doesn't represent anything. So you still should believe yourself and be what you want to .At least,if you always think you are straight and like girls, even though this test give you the result that you are gay, it is not true definitely.If you want to do this test, please click the link here:http://vistriai.com/gaytest/
Nowadays, with the fast development of internet, people post more and more funny things on varies of websites. One of those popular websites is the gay test website. It is a so-called psychological test to help people explore their sexual orientations. And this test works on the principle that people are better at judging the attractiveness of people they themselves are attracted to.
This test includes almost twenty questions that can measure what kind of sexual original you have.Most of questions are let you choose the most attractive person between three pictures. It also ask you about your own idea if you think you are gay or straight people.
Anyway, this test is just for fun , the result doesn't represent anything. So you still should believe yourself and be what you want to .At least,if you always think you are straight and like girls, even though this test give you the result that you are gay, it is not true definitely.If you want to do this test, please click the link here:http://vistriai.com/gaytest/
2014年5月14日星期三
Boy Scouts of America and gay boys
Boy Scouts of America and gay boys
Everybody want to have a good life.So what is the definition of good life? Is it includes good marriage, good salary, good living environment, good education or good body? Whatever, an normal adult wants to have a good life, he/she needs a job at least. But some companies don't accept gay people even they have required educational level.
Boy Scouts of America is a famous company in America. Lots of teenagers join in this organization to train themselves. They sell cookies or other stuff to people and get donation for companies profits. But the Bot Scouts of America lives by two major rules: believing in god and not being gay. It means there is no spot for gay boys to have.But they forget one thing, lots of gay boys become gay people just because they have gay genes. They can't control themselves and all things created genetic. So the boy scouts of america 's behaviors not doubt harm some gay boys feelings.
But good news was coming on January 1st 2014.Thanks to some open-minded members help gay people get their rights ,the BSA decided to allow openly gay boys to join in. But there is still no budging for gay to be leaders. But at least, gay teenagers can get the same rights as normal boys.
In brief, most gay people become gay when they are young. We should not only help them choose correct sexual direction, but also need to care about them and give them same rights as other teenagers. We should learn lessons from the Boy Scouts of America and make the whole society become better.
(Cite:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/16/anti-gay-companies_n_4110344.html)
Everybody want to have a good life.So what is the definition of good life? Is it includes good marriage, good salary, good living environment, good education or good body? Whatever, an normal adult wants to have a good life, he/she needs a job at least. But some companies don't accept gay people even they have required educational level.
Boy Scouts of America is a famous company in America. Lots of teenagers join in this organization to train themselves. They sell cookies or other stuff to people and get donation for companies profits. But the Bot Scouts of America lives by two major rules: believing in god and not being gay. It means there is no spot for gay boys to have.But they forget one thing, lots of gay boys become gay people just because they have gay genes. They can't control themselves and all things created genetic. So the boy scouts of america 's behaviors not doubt harm some gay boys feelings.
But good news was coming on January 1st 2014.Thanks to some open-minded members help gay people get their rights ,the BSA decided to allow openly gay boys to join in. But there is still no budging for gay to be leaders. But at least, gay teenagers can get the same rights as normal boys.
In brief, most gay people become gay when they are young. We should not only help them choose correct sexual direction, but also need to care about them and give them same rights as other teenagers. We should learn lessons from the Boy Scouts of America and make the whole society become better.
(Cite:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/16/anti-gay-companies_n_4110344.html)
2014年5月6日星期二
Michael Sam: first openly gay NFL player
Michael Sam: first openly gay NFL player
Michael Sam announced that he wanted to be the first openly gay player in NFL in February 2014. Definitely, his behaviors created a big blow of arguments. Some people supported his idea while others objected to him seriously. Sam wished people see him as a football player instead of a gay football player. he was also surprised by those people who support him. He liked the feeling that there are some people stand on his side. Even though Sam was projected as a mid-to late-round pick, lots of people still thought he will get bad influence about his announcement.But Sam didn't regret because he thought he wanted to be what he really is and it's worth it.
In my opinion, i support Sam a lot. Because people always want to get the life that they really want. People study hard, work hard , try their best to deal with this word. what is for? they just want to have a ideal life. just like Sam, he want to speak his own idea up , and live his true life. i considered lots of gay people and lesbian people want to do this but they are afraid of the result so that rater live in a unwell life. Sam make a good example to there people , his behavior encourage people to speak their rights up.
In conclusion, i wish public people can understand those homosexuality and give them a support and a help when they need courage to face the reality.
Michael Sam announced that he wanted to be the first openly gay player in NFL in February 2014. Definitely, his behaviors created a big blow of arguments. Some people supported his idea while others objected to him seriously. Sam wished people see him as a football player instead of a gay football player. he was also surprised by those people who support him. He liked the feeling that there are some people stand on his side. Even though Sam was projected as a mid-to late-round pick, lots of people still thought he will get bad influence about his announcement.But Sam didn't regret because he thought he wanted to be what he really is and it's worth it.
In my opinion, i support Sam a lot. Because people always want to get the life that they really want. People study hard, work hard , try their best to deal with this word. what is for? they just want to have a ideal life. just like Sam, he want to speak his own idea up , and live his true life. i considered lots of gay people and lesbian people want to do this but they are afraid of the result so that rater live in a unwell life. Sam make a good example to there people , his behavior encourage people to speak their rights up.
In conclusion, i wish public people can understand those homosexuality and give them a support and a help when they need courage to face the reality.
2014年4月22日星期二
gay and disease
According to world's leading AIDS researchers , HIV continues to spread among gay group.And the rate that HIV spread is becoming serious.Scientists convince gay group are special because of lifestyle and biological factors so that gay people have higher risk get HIV than normal people.
These years in America, infection rates among gay people have been increasing by 8% each year since 2001, more and more people died because of this disease.Normally, HIV experts believe high risk behaviors such as unprotected sex,having multiple partners,injection drug use can make people catch HIV and this is for everyone.But there is an 18 times greater risk of HIV transmission through anal sex than through vaginal sex,that is the reason why gay people have higher rate to get HIV.Because the problem is becoming worse, some experts are trying to save gay people from HIV infection. A strategy called pre-exposure prophylaxis is a effective way to avoid HIV.Experts are also trying to write some articles and make videos to let more gay people know the importance of preventing HIV and tell them the method of how to sex with healthy ways.
In brief, HIV is a deadly disease, gay people should protect themselves and avoid spreading it to other people.
(Cite:http://healthland.time.com/2012/07/20/hiv-continues-to-spread-among-gay-men-studies-show/)
2014年4月1日星期二
Homosexual's lives in Japan
Homosexual lives in Japan
Japan Xin Hua Net published a article about homosexual people's living situation in Japan. The main meaning as follows:
Because it's different from the mainstream of traditional life, homosexual is still a embarrassed topic that can not be talked in formal occasion.Japan is one those countries that have these issues.In japan , homosexual people are not allowed to donate blood, the law also doesn't give those people proper rights. But with the society develops fast and become more open, homosexual are gradually grab more and more attention.
According a survey in Japan Daily Net, there is a video in this website, the video shows a Japanese man describes his personal life in Japan, especially some bad things happened to him such as he was beaten by some people who he even didn't know. The person who created this video is an American. He teaches English in Japan. He founds Japan has big problem about homosexual as other countries,but Japanese media and government did not do any effective method to solve it. All these things make homosexual people feel more lonely and pressure, and force them to consider themselves are wired.
First of all,comparing with some western countries, Japan is a country that pays more attention to the whole society group.They don't like people become too novelty or wired.Because almost whole society even not sure how to deal with homosexual people, so how could independent people to deal with them .So most of homosexual people just keep their sexual orientation as a secret in their heart. Moreover, some people don't understand the concept of homosexual, so they misunderstand it. They simply think gay people as real girls and try to treat them as women. So these wrong understandings make them harder to accept it.
In brief, not all of Japanese dislike or can not accept homosexual people, it is just homosexual people haven't gotten their rights already. So we wish government and public media will pay more attention to it.
(cite source:http://news.xinhuanet.com/2013-02/28/c_132198540.htm)
Japan Xin Hua Net published a article about homosexual people's living situation in Japan. The main meaning as follows:
Because it's different from the mainstream of traditional life, homosexual is still a embarrassed topic that can not be talked in formal occasion.Japan is one those countries that have these issues.In japan , homosexual people are not allowed to donate blood, the law also doesn't give those people proper rights. But with the society develops fast and become more open, homosexual are gradually grab more and more attention.
According a survey in Japan Daily Net, there is a video in this website, the video shows a Japanese man describes his personal life in Japan, especially some bad things happened to him such as he was beaten by some people who he even didn't know. The person who created this video is an American. He teaches English in Japan. He founds Japan has big problem about homosexual as other countries,but Japanese media and government did not do any effective method to solve it. All these things make homosexual people feel more lonely and pressure, and force them to consider themselves are wired.
First of all,comparing with some western countries, Japan is a country that pays more attention to the whole society group.They don't like people become too novelty or wired.Because almost whole society even not sure how to deal with homosexual people, so how could independent people to deal with them .So most of homosexual people just keep their sexual orientation as a secret in their heart. Moreover, some people don't understand the concept of homosexual, so they misunderstand it. They simply think gay people as real girls and try to treat them as women. So these wrong understandings make them harder to accept it.
In brief, not all of Japanese dislike or can not accept homosexual people, it is just homosexual people haven't gotten their rights already. So we wish government and public media will pay more attention to it.
(cite source:http://news.xinhuanet.com/2013-02/28/c_132198540.htm)
2014年3月25日星期二
Gay & Lesbian issue: a survey of a normal Chinese lesbian
A survey of A Normal Chinese Lesbian
Comparing to gay group in china, so-called "la la" which is a lesbian group is not be well known in china. But this group always exists in Chinese society, and they start make it become bigger and bigger. Their intentions are to get understand and support by public.
Four years ago, TONY never thought about there would have so many people just like herself. As a professional photographer, she looks pretty and always wears baseball hat. She likes wearing man style black shirt and jeans, and hold girlfriend's hands chill in a lesbian bar.This bar is a small one near Beijing national stadium. Every Saturday afternoon , from 2pm.to 6pm,this bar is the lesbian group's certain place.all men visitors be refused to go inside.The middle of the bar has a big long table, and a big TV in a corner, these lesbians sit around the table and chat with each other. the TV always displays some lesbians TV show so that match the atmosphere .Every time, they have a host, the host pick up a topic to let them talk and think. Such as the problem of safe sex, or how to face the pressure from family as a lesbian,etc. When the host talk about something, the bar is so quiet , and they will start talking after the host request them to talk about it.TONY has a girlfriend who is date with her almost 7 years, and they are planning to get married the next year.but because Chinese government does not acknowledge lesbian marriage so that they only can get married in private. But they have already decided to do it , so whatever they will face to, they will be a couple.
Actually, TONY was a normal girl when she was young. but she liked playing with female. And she best friend was over close to her, they played together, studied together, even sometimes sleep together. Gradually. tony found her rely on this girl and have passion on her. so she misunderstand this feeling with love. after tony went to university, she started finding some girls to date, and gradually built up the habit that she liked girls to touch her and care about her. so she started the road of being a lesbian.after that, TONY though she is a "problem person. until now.
In fact, TONY is just a model of the lesbian group. Thousands of them have similar story to be a homosexual. but they are not "problem person", they need public care about either. I believe they will figure the problem out soon.
Comparing to gay group in china, so-called "la la" which is a lesbian group is not be well known in china. But this group always exists in Chinese society, and they start make it become bigger and bigger. Their intentions are to get understand and support by public.
Four years ago, TONY never thought about there would have so many people just like herself. As a professional photographer, she looks pretty and always wears baseball hat. She likes wearing man style black shirt and jeans, and hold girlfriend's hands chill in a lesbian bar.This bar is a small one near Beijing national stadium. Every Saturday afternoon , from 2pm.to 6pm,this bar is the lesbian group's certain place.all men visitors be refused to go inside.The middle of the bar has a big long table, and a big TV in a corner, these lesbians sit around the table and chat with each other. the TV always displays some lesbians TV show so that match the atmosphere .Every time, they have a host, the host pick up a topic to let them talk and think. Such as the problem of safe sex, or how to face the pressure from family as a lesbian,etc. When the host talk about something, the bar is so quiet , and they will start talking after the host request them to talk about it.TONY has a girlfriend who is date with her almost 7 years, and they are planning to get married the next year.but because Chinese government does not acknowledge lesbian marriage so that they only can get married in private. But they have already decided to do it , so whatever they will face to, they will be a couple.
Actually, TONY was a normal girl when she was young. but she liked playing with female. And she best friend was over close to her, they played together, studied together, even sometimes sleep together. Gradually. tony found her rely on this girl and have passion on her. so she misunderstand this feeling with love. after tony went to university, she started finding some girls to date, and gradually built up the habit that she liked girls to touch her and care about her. so she started the road of being a lesbian.after that, TONY though she is a "problem person. until now.
In fact, TONY is just a model of the lesbian group. Thousands of them have similar story to be a homosexual. but they are not "problem person", they need public care about either. I believe they will figure the problem out soon.
2014年3月18日星期二
gay&lesbian issue: a famous Chinese gay movie
In this movie, there are two main characters,He Baorong and Li Yaohui, they are a gay couple.They love each other so much. They travel to Argentina for fun, He Baorong bought a gift from street for Li yaohui.But the waterfall on the gift attracts both of them. So they decied to find the waterfall which is a ideal place for them.But unfortunately, the are lost in the way to find the waterfall , and they argue and complain each other, gradually, He Baorong is tired of Li Yaohui, so he left sneakingly. It means they break up. But they meet each other in couples of months by accident, and they still like each other so they decide to start relationship again. A sentence is always repeated in the movie is“let us start from beginning again'. So this time they are treasure and take care of each other very much . Rong do jobs so that they have income for life. Hui just chill at home and hang out on streets. After long time, problems cone again. Because Rong suspect Hui cheat on him when he go to work , so they fight and start hating each other. This time, Hui left and back to Hong kong. After Hui left, Rong start introspecting, and regret himself did not treasure their love.And he understand that not everything can start from beginning again.
This movie is very moving , it not only reports real life of gay people to audience, but also tells us a lesson: we should treasure our love before we lose it, and not everything can be started from beginning again.
2014年3月11日星期二
Gay & Lesbian issue: Will gays gain their own rights in China?
Will gays gain their own rights in China?
Gays in China have been officially announced as non-morbid,but social discriminate this group still very serious. Same-sex marriage in some western countries have got legal guarantee, but china's gay marriage is still difficult and have a long way to go.With the development of internet, more and more same sex websites show up. These websites create big stages for those gays and lesbians. Many homosexual try to announce their rights through website. But China's society has "gay doubt" phenomenon , because people always afraid of something that they don not understand clearly and it is said terrible usually. Especially for young people, on one hand , they do not have enough capacity to determine their sexual behavior direction. On the other hand , they want to explain homosexual but they can not do it clear. so they just want to avoid it and ignore it.so if Chinese homosexual want to get rights, there is no shortcut for them. they must stand in front of public and change other people's mind and try to persuade them to gain their rights. Obviously, it is very different and need a long time, nut the society is always moving forward, i believe with the people's understand and efforts. homosexual people will gain their proper rights one day for sure.
2014年3月3日星期一
Gay & Lesbian issues: China has gay-straight marriages problem
Gay-Straight Marriages are Big Problem in China
Almost 20 million gay people are married to straight women or will marry in the future. Experts estimate 16 million Chinese women are married to gay people.
There are some big issues for women get married with gay men. First,lots of gay men have AIDS and other STD. So, woman who married to gay people have a greater risk of contracting those disease. Second, gay people have straight marriage is not fit for them because they can not be themselves. So they tend to vent their frustrated mood on their wives and kids, and then domestic violence will happen frequently. Third, gay people usually are lack of confidence so that most of them have no job and can not make enough income to support their families. But get a divorce is difficult in China , and according to China's marital law, wives can't get compensation after they divorce with gay husbands. on the other way,these women worry about divorce will hurt their children and lose their faces so they have to live with gay husband for whole life. This point is really sad.
In conclusion,it's a really hard life for straight women get married with gay men. So i really wish government can pay attention to these problems and solve it as soon as possible.
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