2014年6月3日星期二

summary and review of whole semester's diaries

        Time flies so fast. The four-month diary assignment is almost over. At this moment for writing the last summary, it's the time for me to make conclusion and summarize the whole topic of blogs.This semester i concentrated on four big problems of homosexual people.Gay-straight marriage; Asian homosexuak people's lives;Big companies' attitudes toward gay people; Problems between gay people and diseases.
        First, gay-straight marriage is a big issue for all over the world. Lots of people are afraid of telling the truth that they are hopmosexual people. So they keep the secret and pretend to be normal opeople such that gay people marry normal girls as wife. But they are not happy for this knid of fake marriage. They will broke their families and marriages and harm the peopke who love them.It's a tragedy for human sopciety.

        second,i paid more attention on Asian gay people problems. Because Asian culture do not as open as western's, people always avoid talking topics about homosexual. but these years, lots of Chinese and Japanese gay people come out and speak up for their own rights. thus governments need to deal with these issues, apparently governments are not ready for it so that many protests are coming up . Many gay people have the feeling of against government if they can not get the proper rights.
        third, many companies still have bad attitudes toward gay people. They do not hire gay people and don't give the chance let them be leaders. Boy Scouts once did not allow gay young people participating in association and they still do not let gay people be the leader of boy scouts;a Chinese company refused a employee because he is gay . Homosexual people are still having problems about doing jabs and harder for have a normal job career.
        fourth, gay people is a group that easily catch diseases. HIV, sexual transmitted diseases are happen to gay people in high rate. Lots of gay people catch bad disease because they did not use proper sexual  protections. Public should help them build up healthy habit for sex and save them from sick.
        In conclusion, gay people still do not get all rights that they should have. As a normal people in society, we should give equal rights to them and give them respects ,we also should help them whenever they need because we are all humans.

2014年5月27日星期二

Chinese gay people get rejected from company

                    Chinese gay people get rejected from company
               
        A Chinese gay people called Zhao Peng participated in a TV show which helps people to find jobs. In this show, Zhao Peng get appreciation from a big company's CEO, and this CEO announced that Zhao Peng can get a job from him and the salary is almost 3000 dollars a month. But after nearly half year, that CEO told Zhao Peng that he can't have this job anymore. Zhao Peng was so sad and mad, he accused that company of his own rights. Zhao Peng think that company doesn't want him to get jobs because he is a gay people. Because Zhao Peng is an active people in internet, he had very well career life before, but he also post that he is a gay man in the internet,too.Thus, he thinks the company refused him because they saw his profile information on line. Zhao Peng also said there are almost 5% gay people in china still being discriminated. Those people can't find jobs and get proper rights. They have to hide the secrets about they are gay people and personal lives.
       In brief, gay people still have big problems in professional career and related government and public should take care of it seriously.

2014年5月20日星期二

The Gay Test

                                  The Gay Test

 

 
     Nowadays, with the fast development of internet, people post more and more funny things on varies of websites. One of those popular websites is the gay test website. It is a so-called psychological test to help people explore their sexual orientations. And this test works on the principle that people are better at judging the attractiveness of people they themselves are attracted to.
This test includes almost twenty questions that can measure what kind of sexual original you have.Most of questions are let you choose the most attractive person between three pictures. It also ask you about your own idea if you think you are gay or straight people.
     Anyway, this test is just for fun , the result doesn't represent anything. So you still should believe yourself and be what you want to .At least,if you always think you are straight and like girls, even though this test give you the result that you are gay, it is not true definitely.If you want to do this test, please click the link here:http://vistriai.com/gaytest/

2014年5月14日星期三

Boy Scouts of America and gay boys

                        Boy Scouts of America and gay boys
         Everybody want to have a good life.So what is the definition of good life? Is it includes good marriage, good salary, good living environment, good education or good body? Whatever, an normal adult wants to have a good life, he/she needs a job at least. But some companies don't accept gay people even they have required educational level.
         Boy Scouts of America is a famous company in America. Lots of teenagers join in this organization to train themselves. They sell cookies or other stuff to people and get donation for companies profits. But the Bot Scouts of America lives by two major rules: believing in god and not being gay. It means there is no spot for gay boys to have.But they forget one thing, lots of gay boys become gay people just because they have gay genes. They can't control themselves and all things created genetic. So the boy scouts of america 's behaviors not doubt harm some gay boys feelings.
        But good news was coming on January 1st 2014.Thanks to some open-minded members help gay people get their rights ,the BSA decided to allow openly gay boys to join in. But there is still no budging for gay to be leaders. But at least, gay teenagers can get the same rights as normal boys.
       In brief, most gay people become gay when they are young. We should not only help them choose correct sexual direction, but also need to care about them and give them same rights as other teenagers. We should learn lessons from the Boy Scouts of America and make the whole society become better.
(Cite:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/16/anti-gay-companies_n_4110344.html)

2014年5月6日星期二

Michael Sam: first openly gay NFL player

            Michael Sam: first openly gay NFL player
       Michael Sam announced that he wanted to be the first openly gay player in NFL in February 2014. Definitely, his behaviors created a big blow of arguments. Some people supported his idea while others objected to him seriously. Sam wished people see him as a football player instead of a gay football player. he was also surprised by those people who support him. He liked the feeling that there are some people stand on his side. Even though Sam was projected as a mid-to late-round pick, lots of people still thought he will get bad influence about his announcement.But Sam didn't regret because he thought he wanted to be what he really is and it's worth it. 
      In my opinion, i support Sam a lot. Because people always want to get the life that they really want. People study hard, work hard , try their best to deal with this word. what is for? they just want to have a ideal life. just like Sam, he want to speak his own idea up , and live his true life. i considered lots of gay people and lesbian people want to do this but they are afraid of the result so that rater live in a unwell life. Sam make a good example to there people , his behavior encourage people to speak their rights up. 
      In conclusion, i wish public people can understand those homosexuality and give them a support and a help when they need courage to face the reality.

2014年4月22日星期二

gay and disease

                   
         According to world's leading AIDS researchers , HIV continues to spread among gay group.And the rate that HIV spread is becoming serious.Scientists convince gay group are special because of lifestyle and biological factors so that gay people have higher risk get HIV than normal people.
       These years in America, infection rates among gay people have been increasing by 8% each year since 2001, more and more people died because of this disease.Normally, HIV experts believe high risk behaviors such as unprotected sex,having multiple partners,injection drug use can make people catch HIV and this is for everyone.But there is an 18 times greater risk of HIV transmission through anal sex than through vaginal sex,that is the reason why gay people have higher rate to get HIV.Because the problem is becoming worse, some experts are trying to save gay people from HIV infection. A strategy called pre-exposure prophylaxis is a effective way to avoid HIV.Experts are also trying to write some articles and make videos to let more gay people know the importance of preventing HIV and tell them the method of how to sex with healthy ways.
      In brief, HIV is a deadly disease, gay people should protect themselves and avoid spreading it to other people.
(Cite:http://healthland.time.com/2012/07/20/hiv-continues-to-spread-among-gay-men-studies-show/)

2014年4月1日星期二

Homosexual's lives in Japan

                      Homosexual lives in Japan
     Japan Xin Hua Net published a article about homosexual people's living situation in Japan. The main meaning as follows:
       Because it's different from the mainstream of traditional life, homosexual is still a embarrassed topic that can not be talked in formal occasion.Japan is one those countries that have these issues.In japan , homosexual people are not allowed to donate blood, the law also doesn't give those people proper rights. But with the society develops fast and become more open, homosexual are gradually grab more and more attention.
       According  a survey in Japan Daily Net, there is a video in this website, the video shows a Japanese man describes his personal life in Japan, especially some bad things happened to him such as he was beaten by some people who he even didn't know. The person who created this video is an American. He teaches English in Japan. He founds Japan has big problem about homosexual as other countries,but Japanese media and government did not do any effective method to solve it. All these things make homosexual people feel more lonely and pressure, and force them to consider themselves are wired.
       First of all,comparing with some western countries, Japan is a country that pays more attention to the whole society group.They don't like people become too novelty or wired.Because almost whole society even not sure how to deal with homosexual people, so how could independent people to deal with them .So most of homosexual people just keep their sexual orientation as a secret in their heart. Moreover, some people don't understand the concept of homosexual, so they misunderstand it. They simply think gay people as real girls and try to treat them as women. So these wrong understandings make them harder to accept it.
       In brief, not all of Japanese dislike or can not accept homosexual people, it is just homosexual people haven't gotten their rights already. So we wish government and public media will pay more attention to it.
(cite source:http://news.xinhuanet.com/2013-02/28/c_132198540.htm)